Ep 22 - They Heard Your Boundary. They Just Didn't Like It.

Have you ever explained the same boundary over and over again, only to watch someone continue crossing it? What if the problem isn't that they don't understand? What if they heard you perfectly?

In this episode of Becoming Unbothered, Dr. Shiloh explores one of the hardest truths in relationships: sometimes people know exactly what they're doing. We discuss the difference between confusion and resistance, why some people keep pushing limits after you've clearly communicated them, and how to stop wasting energy trying to convince others to respect boundaries they've already decided they don't like.

You'll learn:

• The difference between confusion and testing

• Why over-explainers often stay stuck

• How to recognize when a pattern is no longer a misunderstanding

• What Matthew 7:6 teaches us about discernment and access

• How to protect your peace without becoming bitter

If you've ever found yourself asking, "How many times do I have to explain this?" this episode is for you. Because sometimes they heard the boundary. They just didn't like it.

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