Have you ever been perfectly fine and then one conversation completely threw off your entire nervous system? You were doing okay. You had your coffee. You were minding your business. And then you talked to someone who was anxious, reactive, passive-aggressive, or emotionally chaotic…and suddenly now...

Have you ever had a moment where nothing actually happened, but your body reacted like something was wrong? Your heart starts racing. Your thoughts begin filling in the blanks. And suddenly you’re wondering, “Why do I feel like I’m in trouble right now?”

If that sounds familiar, you’re not overreac...

If you are the person everyone relies on, you may know this feeling well. You help. You organize. You step in when things fall apart. And yet somewhere along the way, being helpful turned into being exhausted.

A listener recently wrote to me asking, “How do I stop people-pleasing without feeling li...

Hard conversations are one of the most uncomfortable parts of adult life.

Whether it involves a colleague, family member, partner, or friend, many people find themselves walking into difficult discussions hoping things will go smoothly.

Unfortunately, conversations that begin calmly can escalate q...

Boundaries vs. Barriers — Why You’re Not Protecting Yourself the Way You Think

For many people, the phrase “I’m setting boundaries” really means… “I’m building walls because I don’t feel safe.”

And there’s a reason for that. Most of us were never taught the difference between a healthy boundary an...