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How to Have Hard Conversations Without Losing Your Cool boundaries communication skills conflict resolution emotion regulation mental health relationships self-trust trauma informed

Hard conversations are one of the most uncomfortable parts of adult life.

Whether it involves a colleague, family member, partner, or friend, many people find themselves walking into difficult discussions hoping things will go smoothly.

Unfortunately, conversations that begin calmly can escalate q...

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Boundaries vs. Barriers — Why You’re Not Protecting Yourself the Way You Think boundaries coping strategies lifestyle peace relationships

Boundaries vs. Barriers — Why You’re Not Protecting Yourself the Way You Think

For many people, the phrase “I’m setting boundaries” really means… “I’m building walls because I don’t feel safe.”

And there’s a reason for that. Most of us were never taught the difference between a healthy boundary an...

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