Dr. Shiloh's Blog
One of the most common statements I hear in my counseling office is, "I just want my old self back."
I understand why people say it. After a painful divorce, the loss of someone they love, a frightening diagnosis, years of burnout, betrayal by a trusted friend, or a season of overwhelming stress, m...
One of the most frustrating experiences in any relationship is finding yourself having the same conversation over and over again while nothing actually changes.
You explain your needs. You communicate your limits. You clarify your expectations. You carefully choose your words and do your best to re...
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why did I react like THAT?”, you’re not alone. Triggers are one of the most confusing emotional experiences people face, and yet, most of us were never taught what a trigger actually is or why it happens. So let’s break it down in a way that is simple, compassionate, and de...
Have you ever felt like your voice doesn’t matter? Like you’re constantly saying yes when you want to say no, staying silent to avoid conflict, or apologizing for things that don’t require an apology? If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many of us struggle with finding our voice, setting boun...
For many families, mom is the glue that holds everything together—the one who manages schedules, keeps the household running, and ensures everyone is taken care of. But what happens when the glue suddenly comes undone due to illness or an unexpected crisis?
Life can throw unexpected challenges, and...
