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How to Have Hard Conversations Without Losing Your Cool boundaries communication skills conflict resolution emotion regulation mental health relationships self-trust trauma informed

Hard conversations are one of the most uncomfortable parts of adult life.

Whether it involves a colleague, family member, partner, or friend, many people find themselves walking into difficult discussions hoping things will go smoothly.

Unfortunately, conversations that begin calmly can escalate q...

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Trusting Peace After a Lifetime of Hypervigilance boundaries emotion regulation mental health peace self-trust trauma informed

A Letter to Dr. Shiloh

Every so often, I receive a message that represents the heartbeat of so many people. Individuals who are strong, responsible, intuitive, and exhausted by a level of vigilance they don’t know how to turn off.

Today’s blog is written in response to one of those people - a woma...

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